Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Guard Your Tongue

Only few pages taken from book
Guard your tongue      23 pages book can be downloaded from the given below link
(Written by: Mirza Ehteshamuddin Ahmed)

      The tongue, the language and the mind etc... are great gifts of Allah(SWT-Subhana Wa Ta'laa). These gifts that Allah has given to man makes him superior to all other creatures. Islam has given special attention to speech, its style, its etiquette and rules, because the talk that comes out from a man's mouth discloses  his intellectual level and moral nature. Moreove, the etiquette of speech in a group reveals its general standard, and shows the standard of decency in their environment.
                 
        Truthful, clean and decent conversation impresses both friends and foes (enemies, rivals, opponents), and its sweet fruits can be readily enjoyed. It guards love between friends.

A FALSE OR UNKIND WORD MAY DESTROY MANY RELATIONS

"Say (0 Prophet!) to my slaves to speak which is kindlier. Verily, the devil sows discord among them. Verily, the devil is for man an open enemy."  (Surah Bani Israil 17:53)

 "Not a word is said except that there is a guard (close observer) by him ready to record it."
[Surah Qaf (50:18]

On a Day when their tongues, their hands and their feet will bear witness against them as to what they used to do.
(Surah AlNur 24:24)

O you who believe, fear Allah and be with those who are true.
(Surah At-Tauba 9:119)

          Narrated Abu Musa (RA): Some people asked Allah's Apostle, "Whose
Islam is the best? i.e. (Who is a very good Muslim)?" He replied, "One who avoids harming the Muslims with his tongue and hands."
(Bukhari 1.10)

Prophet(pbh) said I guarantee Paradise for ….
Narrated Sahl bin Sa`d: Allah's Apostle (pbh) said, "Whoever can guarantee (the chastity of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs (i.e. his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him." (Bukhari 8:481)

"Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should not hurt his neighbor and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should serve his guest  generously and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, should talk what is good or keep quiet."
(Bukhari 8/158)

A wrong word uttered by tongue the person may slip into hell fire
Narrated Abu Huraira (RA): That he heard Allah's Apostle saying, "A
slave of Allah may utter a word without thinking whether it is right or wrong, he may slip down in the Fire as far away a distance equal to that between the east."(and the west)
(Bukhari 8:484; Muslim)

Which is among the dangerous acts that displeases Allah (SWT)?
Narrated Abu Huraira(RA): The Prophet (pbh); said, "A slave (of Allah) may utter a word which pleases Allah without giving it much importance, and because of that Allah will raise him to degrees (of reward): a slave (of Allah(SWT) may utter a word (carelessly) which displeases Allah(SWT) without thinking of its gravity and because of that he will be thrown into the Hell- Fire."
(Bukhari 8:485 )

Who tells lies? {{ Answer, (1) Kafir, (2) Hypocrite (Munafiq),
(3)indebted person (one who ows money), (4)Seller}} 

Narrated `Aisha(RA): Allah's Apostle used to invoke Allah in the prayer saying,
 
اَللّٰہُمَّ اِنِّیْ اَعُوْذُبِکَ مِنَ الْمَاْثَمِ وَالْمَغْرَمِ

      
 "O Allah, I seek refuge with you from all sins, and from being in debt."
 Someone said, O Allah's Apostle! (I see you) very often you seek refuge with Allah(SWT) from being in debt. He replied, "If a person is in debt, he tells lies when he speaks, and breaks his promises when he promises."
(Bukhari 3:582 ; Muslim 1:412)

WHAT HAPPENS TO LIARS?
Woe (highest affliction, highest  hardship) to every sinful liar
(Surah Al-Jathiya 45:7)

Allah(SWT) does not guide liars
Indeed, Allah(SWT) does not guide one who is a transgressor and a liar.
(Surah Al-Mumin  40/28)

Whoever fabricates a lie about Allah is unjust and he goes to hell

(1)And who is more unjust than one who invents a lie about Allah or denies the truth when it has come to him? Is there not in Hell a [sufficient] residence for the disbelievers?
 (Surah Al-Ankabut 29:68)

  (2)So who is more unjust than he who invents a lie about Allah(SWT) or denies His signs? Indeed, the criminals will not succeed.
(Surah Yunus 10/17)       
 


 Whoever tells a lie against Prophet(pbh) he occupies a place in hell fire.
Narrated Anas (RA): The fact which stops me from narrating a great number of Hadiths to you is that the prophet(pbh) said: "Whoever tells a lie against me intentionally, then (surely) let him occupy his seat in Hell-fire."
(Bukhari 1/108)

The cheeks of liar will be torn away (from mouth to the ear) till the day of Resurrection
Narrated Samura bin Jundub(RA): The prophet(pbh) said, "I saw (in a dream), two men came to me." Then the prophet(pbh) narrated the story (saying), "They said, 'The person, the one whose cheek you saw being torn away (from the mouth to the ear) was a liar and used to tell lies and the people would report those lies on his authority till they spread all over the world. So he will be punished like that till the Day of Resurrection."'
 (Bukhari 8/118)

Who is most hatred person in the sight of Allah(SWT)
The prophet(pbh) said, "The most hated person in the sight of Allah(SWT) is the most quarrelsome person."
(Bukhari 3/634)

FOBIDDEN ACTS
   Concerning the present topic to guard the tongue some forbidden acts are (a) Don't sit in a gathering where Allah's Ayaat verses of Quran are ridiculed
     (mocked or laughed at)
(Al-Nisa 4/140)
(b) Allah commands avoid false statement,  (Surah Al-Hajj 22/30)

(c) Evil should not be noised abroad in public speech ( An-Nissa 4/148)
(d) "Don't repel your parents but speak to them a noble word.
      (Surah Al-Isra-17:23)
(e) "Do not abuse the dead" (Bukhari 8:523)
(f) Don't sell goods by false oath. (Muslim  Book 1:0192)



(g) "Abusing a Muslim is Fusuq (i.e., an evil doing), and killing him is Kufr
      (disbelief).(Bukhari 8:70)
(h) Don't accuse chaste women (Bukhari)
(i) Do not obey every worthless  scorner, going about with malicious gossip
     (Surah Al-Qalam 68:12)  
(j) Great is hatred in the sight of Allah that you say what you do not do.
      (Surah Ass-Saff 61:2-3)
(k) Don't abuse the Dahr (Time) (Bukhari 8:200)


23 pages book can be downloaded from the following link
(Written by: Mirza Ehteshamuddin Ahmed- Hyderabadi)

No comments:

Post a Comment