Love
between Husband and Wife.
اَعُوْذُ بِاللّٰہِ مِنَ الشَّیْطَانِ الرَّجِیْمِ ۔ بِسْمِ
اللّٰہِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ
(1) All-Mighty
Allah says in the Noble Quran “And among His signs is that
He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find
contentment in them, and He has instilled between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed
signs for people who reflect”. (Quran Ar-Room
30:21)
اور اس کی نشانیوں
میں سے یہ بھی ہے کہ تمہارے لیے تمہیں میں سے بیویاں پیدا کیں تاکہ ان کے پاس چین
سے رہو اور تمہارے درمیان محبت اور مہربانی پیدا کر دی جو لوگ غور کرتے ہیں انکےلیے
اس میں نشانیاں ہیں
(2) It is
He Who has created you from a single person (Adam), and (then) He has created
from him his wife [Hawwa' (Eve)], in order that he might enjoy the
pleasure of living with her. (Quran Al-A’raaf 7:189)
وہ وہی ہے جس نے
تمہیں ایک جان سے پیدا کیا اور اسی سے اس کا جوڑ بنایا تاکہ اس سے آرام پائے
(3)
“Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you,
so come to your place of cultivation when and how you wish and
put forth [righteousness] for yourselves”. (Quran 2:223)
تمہاری بیویاں تمہاری کھیتیاں ہیں پس تم اپنی
کھیتیوں میں جیسے چاہو آؤ
(4)
“They are garments for you and you are garments unto them” (Quran Al-Baqara 2:187)
وہ تمہارے لیے پردہ ہیں اورتم ان کے لیے پردہ
ہو
(5-Hadith) Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said,
"If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation)
and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her
till morning." (Bukhari Book 54 Hadith # 460)
(6-Hadith) 'Abdullah b. Amr reported Allah's
Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The
whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is
the pious woman (Muslim 8/3465-Marriage
Kitab Al Nikah)
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Supplications
(Duas) to have children (OffSprings)
For
couples those who do not have children, Scholars advised that both husband and wife should not get worried
and troubled as everything is in the Hand of Allah and whatever Allah has
predestined will undoubtedly take place. Both must be patient, approach
Allah, ask Him forgiveness, abide by His orders and supplicate Him. Indeed
Allah does not turndown the supplications of those who supplicate to Him.
Allah Says (And your Lord said: "Invoke Me,
[i.e. believe in My Oneness (and ask Me for anything) I will respond to
your (invocation). [Quran Gafir 40/60].
Allah also Says “(And when My slaves ask you (O Muhammad) concerning Me,
then (answer them), I am indeed near (to them by My Knowledge). I respond
to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me (without any
mediator or intercessor). So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that
they may be led aright). [Quran 2/186].
Scholars advised 2 things (1) Be Thankful to Allah (2) Istiqfar
(1) Be Thankful to Allah
"If you would count up the favors of Allah, never would you be
able to number them: for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Al-Nahl, 18)
Since there is no limit to the favors of Allah, a
believer should unceasingly keep himself occupied with the remembrance of
Allah and express his gratefulness to Him.
Allah Says “If you give
thanks, I will give you more (of My Blessings); but if you are thankless
(i.e. disbelievers), verily My punishment is indeed severe.” (14/7)
(2) Istiqhfar
People often forget the importance of the simple yet
powerful dua (supplication) – Istighfar i.e., saying “Astaghfirullah” (I seek forgiveness of Allah).
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) recited this at least 100 times a day.
Istighfar (Astaghfirullah) is the gateway of relief and
happiness. Whenever you are in distress start reciting it and Insha Allah
it will take you out of your anxiety and will put you in a peaceful
situation and will give you happiness. Istighfar is the secret
of success and the medication that was prescribed to people who
want to have more health, wealth or children.
Allah will respond to your
invocations and give you satisfaction, Insha Allah. Countless people have
waited for years and years before getting children and at last Allah gave
them what they desired.
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Mirza Ehteshamuddin Ahmed-Indian (Hyderabadi)
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اَعُوْذُ بِاللّٰہِ مِنَ الشَّیْطَانِ الرَّجِیْمِ ۔ بِسْمِ اللّٰہِ
الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ.
رَبِّ ھَبْ لِیْ مِنَ الصّٰلِحِیْنَ
اے میرے رب مجھے نیک بخت اولاد
عطا فرما
“My Lord! Grant me (offspring) from the righteous” (Quran
37/100)
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رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِیْ فَرْدًا
وَّاَنْتَ خَیْرُالْوٰرِثِیْنَ
اے میرے پروردگار مجھے تنہا نہ چھوڑ تو سب سے بہتر وارث ہے
"O
My Lord! Leave me not single (childless), though You are the Best of the
inheritors." (Quran 21/89)
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رَبِّ ھَبْ لِیْ مِنْ لَّدُنْکَ ذُرِّیَّۃً طَیِّبَۃً ج اِنَّکَ سَمِیْعٌ الدُّعَآءِ
اے میرے پروردگار مجھے اپنے
پاس سے پاکیزہ اولاد عطا فرما بے شک تو دعا کا سننے والا ہے
“O my
Lord! Grant me from You, a good offspring. You are indeed the All-Hearer of
invocation.” (Quran 3/38)
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فَہَبْ لِیْ مِنْ لَّدُنْکَ
وَلِیًّا لا
یَّرِثُنِیْ
پس تو مجھے اپنے پاس سے وارث عطا فرما جو میر ا وارث ہو
“So give me from Yourself an heir, Who shall inherit me” (Quran
19/5,6)
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رَبَّنَا وَاجْعَلْنَا
مُسْلِمَیْنِ لَکَ وَمِنْ ذُرِّیَّتِنَآ اُمَّۃً مُّسْلِمَۃً لَّکَ
اے ہمارے رب ہم دونوں کو اپنا
فرما نبردار بنا اور ہماری نسل میں سے اٹھا ایک امت جو اطاعت گزار ہو تیری
“Our Lord! And make us submissive unto You and of our offspring a
nation submissive unto You” (Quran 2/128)
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In the end add this Arabic dua also.
یَا اَللّٰہُ اَنْتَ الْخَالِقُ
الْبَارِیءُ الْمُصَوِّرُ لَکَ الْاَسْمَآءُ الْحُسْنٰی رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ
دُعَآءِ
یا اللہ آپ پیدا کرنے والے ہر
چیز کو ایجاد کرنے والے صورت بنانے والے
ہیں اور آپکے نہایت اچھے نام ہیں اے ہمارے
رب میری دعا قبول فرما آمین
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